How do attorneys kill an attorney client relationship?
Which ten things, that lawyers can control, ruin an attorney-client relationship?
We have been representing clients in civil litigation cases for over 40 years. Forty years is a long time. I have represented over 2,000 clients. That is a huge number of clients. Battle tested and introspective, I know what works and what does not work. And while I do not believe there are stupid questions, I am sure I have given a few dumb answers. Clients need to ask questions and lawyers need to answer questions. And they need to answer questions using words that clients will understand.
So, what makes for a solid attorney-client working relationship?
The attorney-client relationship is built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. However, certain behaviors or actions can undermine this relationship and ultimately lead to dissatisfaction or conflict. Here are ten things that can ruin an attorney-client relationship:
- Lack of Communication: Poor communication is one of the most common factors that can damage the attorney-client relationship. Clients expect their attorneys to be responsive, accessible, and proactive in providing updates and addressing their concerns. Failure to communicate promptly or effectively can breed frustration and erode trust.
- Unmet Expectations: Clients often have specific expectations regarding the outcome of their case, the timeline for resolution, and the level of involvement they expect from their attorney. When these expectations are not managed or met, clients may feel disillusioned or dissatisfied with the legal representation they receive.
- Lack of Transparency: Clients rely on their attorneys to provide honest and transparent advice about the strengths and weaknesses of their case, as well as the potential risks and costs involved. If an attorney fails to be transparent or provides misleading information, it can lead to a breakdown in trust.
- Poor Legal Advice: Providing inadequate or incorrect legal advice can have serious consequences for clients, both in terms of the outcome of their case and their trust in their attorney’s competence. Attorneys must have the knowledge and expertise to offer sound legal guidance that aligns with their clients’ best interests.
- Failure to Manage Expectations: Effective attorneys are skilled at managing their clients’ expectations and helping them understand the realities of the legal process. When attorneys fail to set realistic expectations or adequately prepare clients for potential challenges, it can lead to disappointment and dissatisfaction.
- Lack of Empathy or Understanding: Clients facing legal issues are often under significant stress and emotional strain. Attorneys who fail to demonstrate empathy or understanding toward their clients’ concerns may create a sense of disconnect or alienation.
- Conflicts of Interest: Clients rely on their attorneys to act in their best interests and avoid any conflicts of interest that could compromise their representation. Failing to disclose or address potential conflicts of interest can erode trust and undermine the integrity of the attorney-client relationship.
- Billing Disputes: Billing disputes or discrepancies can strain the attorney-client relationship, particularly if clients feel they are being overcharged or billed for unnecessary expenses. Attorneys should be transparent about their fee structure and billing practices to avoid misunderstandings.
- Ethical Violations: Violations of professional ethics or misconduct can irreparably damage the attorney-client relationship. Clients expect their attorneys to adhere to the highest standards of ethical conduct, and any breaches of trust can lead to loss of confidence and loyalty.
- Lack of Advocacy: Clients hire attorneys to advocate on their behalf and fight for their rights and interests. Attorneys who fail to zealously represent their clients or demonstrate apathy toward their case can quickly lose their clients’ trust and respect.
We can explain but we cannot make you understand.
In conclusion, maintaining a strong attorney-client relationship requires open communication, honesty, competence, and a commitment to serving the client’s best interests. Attorneys who prioritize these principles are more likely to foster positive and enduring relationships with their clients. The same can be said about established relationships with lawyers who refer work to us.